Survival is a talent.

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bebsi-cola
bebsi-cola

happy disability pride to

  • disabled people who live with their parents or carers
  • disabled people who dropped out of school because of their disability
  • disabled people who struggle to feel like they "count" as disabled
  • disabled people who feel like their conditions are treated like jokes by others (ibs, ocd, menstrual disorders, etc etc.)
  • disabled people who feel like they aren't seen by the wider community
  • disabled people who feel like they're taking one step forward and two steps back
  • disabled people who get stared at and hate it

and so on! disability pride is for every disabled person but it's nice to get a shout out and feel part of the community !

chronic-me-disorder
chronic-me-disorder

anyway, this disability pride month i would like to remind the abled people that just because i can do something doesn't mean i should.

just because i can walk three miles doesn't mean i should, because it will hurt like hell today, tomorrow, and for like four days after.

just because i can exercise doesn't mean i should, because maybe it would help but right now my arm feels like its about to pop out of it's socket and if i stand up i am going to pass out.

just because i can do schoolwork doesn't mean i should because my brain is currently fogged up with all the pain i am feeling right now.

just because i can doesn't mean i should.

bionicbabe0101
bionicbabe0101

I’ve been disabled for 20 years now. A new ‘friend’ asked me recently if it’s gotten any easier with time. I said no, absolutely not. I think she was surprised by that, because she pressed a little, saying it must be easier to accept at least…like there must be somethings I had gotten used to by now?

I really think it’s hard for people to imagine being in chronic pain for that long. She was clearly uncomfortable with this idea that every day I wake up and have to cope with my illnesses and that will always be hard to accept.

I told her that my health was always changing, and the thing I have learned is to try and adapt every day as best I can in a world where healthcare is expensive and hard to access, my employer sees me and others like me as a liability, and very few useful, practical, affordable accommodations actually exist.

She asked me if I had considered trying a ‘clean diet’.

I changed the subject.

(Btw…her husband is a doctor…sigh)